The3BsOld Orchard Beach, ME
I am hopelessly complex and simple, a contradiction yes, but we are all contradictions in some things. Simply put, I value honesty above all else, especially when it comes to feelings. I love to cook, entertain and spend time with my fiends and their children.
I can say all I have even wanted to be is “dad”. I grew tired of waiting for the right time and realized that there is no perfect time. I planned very carefully, began the process, made my decisions and now have all that a man could desire, at least this man anyway I am not one who sits around and waits for things to happen to me I am better at making things happen. I guess it takes a special kind of person who gets utter joy from bath time, reading a story, a child running to you at the end of a day, when you feel beat to shit and this little person runs to you like you have been gone forever, throws themselves into your arms and says “daddy, love you”.
Benjamin is 7 and Bryce is now 3. Been through Diapers, potty training, playgroups, dating, trial and tribulation and still would not trade it. Faith, Perseverance and Love and a good margarita are all I need in addition to the love of my kids!