Dad2BeinDC

Dad2BeinDC
Washington, DC

Greetings, I live in the suburbs of Washington, D.C. I am healthy, normal, nice looking Italian man who is successful in business. I have many close friends and a very loving family. I have a bachelor’s degree and I love my job, but I can imagine a better life coaching little league, braiding pigtails, or attending PTA meetings. I’m looking for a woman in a similar situation, who at this time of their life, realize that there is one thing missing – A child. I am looking for a loving, caring woman who would be equal partners in raising a child ( or 2 ). Time goes by so quickly and perhaps we never find that one special person to realize the dream of raising children. I believe there is another way to achieve this goal. Three years ago I met a wonderful woman. We were both in our 40s, and she had a partner with grown children. We had a common goal and that was to have a child ( or a few ) and raise a wonderful human being and enjoy a very great life, all of us. After many months of home inseminations, nothing seemed to work. After a year and a half, we sought the assistance of a fertility doctor. There were no apparent obsticles they determined so The next course of process was to try IUI ( Intra uterine insemination ). On the second try, it took. We were so excited. A baby was on the way. That was last September. Just before Christmas we told everyone. Last January, there was a miscarriage. She was 20 weeks along. It was devistating. I felt very helpless. I thought it was over. I couldn’t imagine M. wanting to go through that process again, but I told her it was her decision. In March / April she decided she wanted to try again. With the direction of her doctor, they reccommended invitro. It was quite expensive, but considering everything, it was a more precise process. In June, the process started and we inplanted 4 healthy eggs. They didn’t take. We have tried the IVF again with no success. This very wonderful woman is at a point where having a baby may not be in her future. It is very much still in my future, I can’t imagine not being a Dad. I would love to chat more. If not you, then perhaps a very good friend who has the same feelings. My best regards