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The most influential LGBT Twitter users of 2011 announced

January 3, 2012 By prideangel.com

The most influential LGBT Twitter users of 2011 have been announced

Stephen Fry has been named the most influential LGBT Twitter user in PinkNews.co.uk’s 2011 list. He told PinkNews.co.uk: “It’s a very remarkable honour to top such a list. Thank you.

Actors, comedians, equality activists and writers all feature in Pink News’s list of the top 50 most influential LGBT Twitter users of 2011.

Earlier this month, they asked for your nominations for the LGBT voices you listen to on the micro-blogging site. Pink News ran those nominations through the PeerIndex social media ranking system and the results are in.

PeerIndex measures how authoritative and interesting other people think a Twitter user is, as well as what topics and categories drive that interest, rather than focusing only on the number of followers each user has.

Below you will find the list of the top 5 Tweeters with their ranking, username and PeerIndex score in brackets, followed by their profession.

1= @stephenfry
Stephen Fry (92)
Actor, writer, author, television presenter. 3,600,000 followers.

2= @perezhilton
Perez Hilton (90)
Blogger and media personality.

2= @theellenshow
Ellen DeGeneres (90)
Comedian, talk show host. 8,700,000 followers.

4= @ricky_martin
Ricky Martin (88)
Musician. 4,600,000 followers.

5= @actuallynph
Neil Patrick Harris (86)
Actor. 2,300,000 followers.

Read the rest of the list at www.pinknews.co.uk

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Facebook removes ‘20,000’ underage users each day

March 23, 2011 By Editorial Staff

Approximately 20,000 children under age 13 are removed from Facebook for lying about their age every day. This was divulged during testimony by one of Facebook’s privacy advisors before Australia’s parliamentary cyber-safety committee. Also, nearly half of all 12-year-olds in the U.S. are using social networking sites, despite not meeting the minimum age requirements for sites like Facebook. This according to a study by the Pew Internet & American Life Project. And social networking increases tremendously once the teens grow older: roughly 64% of 13-year-olds are networking online; between the ages of 14 to 17, that figure jumps to 82%, says Pew. Any user no matter age can register for Facebook by simply lying when signing up – the giant has no mechanisms to detect whether a teen is telling the truth or not.

Filed Under: Editor's Pick, Legal & Financial Tagged With: Facebook

What you need to know about Snapchat

September 25, 2017 By Editorial Staff


Snapchat is a “disappearing” messaging app. It allows users to send photos or videos accompanied by short text messages, which can be viewed for a short amount of time, then it’s gone forever… Or at least, it’s supposed to be. The safe part of Snapchat has often been debated. The app has become a hotbed for sexting and cyberbullying among all ages, in part because of how it operates.

via Teen Safe

For teens, Snapchat offers a false sense of security with its disappearing messages. The possibility of an inappropriate or explicit photo getting saved and shared can be disastrous.

Here is some of what you need to know about Snapchat:

  • Snapchat itself admits that up to 25% of users may send sensitive content on a regular basis.
  • 15% of teenagers between the ages of 12 and 17 acknowledge they received a “sext” from someone they know.
  • There are questions about the privacy Snapchat offers users. There are apps on the market which override the ephemeral quality Snapchat promotes. These apps allow people to share images or locate hidden photos on a device.
  • There are sites and blogs dedicated to sharing leaked Snapchat images.
  • Hackers have been known to publish thousands of snaps mainly of 13 to 17 year olds.

This is the fastest growing social media app surpassing even Instagram, which has been ranked as the number-one favorite app for teen. There are an estimated 82 million users, with a majority of them between the age of 13 to 25 years old. There are roughly 350 million posts or “snaps” sent daily. Four out of every ten teens frequent Snapchat. Snapchat has equaled Facebook for numbers of photos shared.

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New app will address LGBT health disparities

September 5, 2017 By Editorial Staff


Three University of Pennsylvania medical students have created SpectrumScores to connect LGBT patients with the right providers to meet their unique needs. A recent nationwide study showed that more than half of LGBT patients face discrimination in healthcare settings.

via Philly Mag

“SpectrumScores isn’t just an app, it’s a mission,” co-founder Jun Jeon said. “Accessibility to proper healthcare is a fundamental human right, no matter where you lie on the spectrum.”

The SpectrumScores team interviewed more than 100 LGBTQ patients in the city, and their input inspired the app to allow users to search, rate, and review providers based on several LGBTQ-specific metrics. In addition, users will be able to filter providers by relative distance, conditions treated, insurance accepted, languages spoken, and more to make finding the right fit as easy as possible.

Filed Under: News & Politics

Role model to millions of young people shows her pride

August 3, 2017 By Editorial Staff


“Security?” Lady Gaga said sweetly into her mic, in the first show in her Joanne World Tour. “May I have that gay pride flag, please?” Gaga – who was standing on a stage in the middle of the floor – got her wish, and she was handed that rainbow flag from the audience. Thousands of Little Monsters cheered as the singer posed onstage with the flag.

“Needless to say, I have a lot to say about this issue,” Gaga, an outspoken LGBTQ advocate, said. “But the most important thing that I’ve got to say about it, is that everybody’s got to love each other.”

Those familiar with Gaga’s latest album could predict the next song in her set.

“So for any of who don’t believe in equality that are here this evening – Come to Mama.”

Come to Mama partial lyrics:

Everybody’s got to love each other
Stop throwin’ stones at your sisters and your brothers…

Come to mama
Tell me who hurt ya
There’s gonna be no future
If we don’t figure this out

Why do we gotta tell each other how to live?
The only prisons that exist are ones we put each other in
Why do we gotta tell each other how to live?
Look what that rainbow did

Gaga continued her show as a backup dancer incorporated the flag into the next number.

Lady Gaga has over 75 million Twitter and Facebook followers/fans – a number which could fill the states of Texas, California and New York.

When it comes to Twitter, one out of six users follower her, and if each of them retweeted her tweets they could, hypothetically, reach 7.5 billion people. And they’re tweeting good things about the Mother Monster, too, with 95 percent of “Lady Gaga” mentions on Twitter being positive.

Gaga received 41,000 tweets per minute on Twitter during her Super Bowl Halftime performance. And on Facebook, 396,000 people per minute were talking about Lady Gaga, according to Fox’s media stats.

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‘Google Home’ ad features gay dads

April 23, 2017 By Editorial Staff


Google is supporting gay families by showcasing two dads in an ad for Google Home – which shows off the device’s new ability to support multiple users.

The ad shows a gay couple asking Google Home what their respective days look like, while their children eat breakfast nearby.

WATCH:

Filed Under: News & Politics

Teaching your children to stay safe on the Internet

September 12, 2016 By Editorial Staff

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Children are very quick to learn and to start using any Internet-enabled device, but lack of basic knowledge about online privacy and security can very easily lead to identity theft, downloads of malicious viruses and so on.

For example, Symantec, an online security company conducted a study in Singapore, which suggested that more than 1 million people in the country were victims to online crime last year ­ and 20 percent of them said that it was their children who had downloaded a virus or malicious software to the parents’ computer.

Another danger are cyberthieves, who see easy targets in children. Criminals, for example, can combine a child’s Social Security Number with a fake date of birth and address to open bank accounts, get credit cards or loans.

As children grow, they learn the safe procedures of using the Internet and sharing information on social media. However, the time before this learning curve is the most dangerous ­- and this is when parents and educators should step in and offer guidance.

Please take a look at some tips & tricks parents can implement at home to teach children about Internet privacy and safety.

1. Lay out some ground rules. Whether your child is a teenager or a kid in elementary school, you need to tell them a few basic guidelines. For example, you can start by telling that anything shared once on the Internet stays there forever and that nothing is 100% private.

2. Tell them to check with you. First tell your child what ‘personal information’ means. Draw up a list for them and tell them clearly that they should always consult with you before sharing those details together with any website or person on the Internet.

3. Password protection and usage. Children at a young age start creating their own email accounts these days. Although such email websites alert users to choose strong passwords, advise your child on what kind of passwords to choose. Tell them that the password could be a mix of characters and special symbols and ask them never to share their passwords with anyone, perhaps even with you. Diceware is an easy to use password methodology, where you roll a six-sided die five times and use the results to pick five random words from the list.

4. Curb social media usage. Children spend a lot of time on social media, so it’s important to let them know what is OK to share and what isn’t. Have a talk with your child and discuss what they should not share on social media, for everything stays forever on the Internet. If you want to take an extra step in securing your child’s online privacy, create fake social media names for them and fake school/city name.

5. IM and texting. Sending messages on IM clients like messenger or Whatsapp is something every teenager does, but they don’t always know that their chats are not 100% private. Therefore, you should advise them never to share personal or bank details or other sensitive information like passwords via messages.

6. Share news of personal hacks with them. If your child is big enough to understand this, share the latest news about identity thefts or personal hacks with them to make them aware of the dangers they face while using the Internet.

7. Explain the dangers of free public Wi-Fi. Kids love free Wi-Fi – who doesn’t? Cafes, shops, and even school cafeteria might have unsecured Wi-Fi networks. Explain to your kids to be especially cautious when connecting to these networks ­as they can easily be monitored. One of the best ways to safely use public Wi-Fi is by installing a VPN. You can pre-install a VPN on a mobile device and teach kids to turn it on whenever using public Wi-Fi.

8. Install a VPN. For ultimate protection install a VPN service on the device they use to encrypt their online communication data. VPN, or Virtual Private Network, creates a connection tunnel that automatically encrypts all the data coming in and out of your device, and effectively protects anyone using the Internet. NordVPN is one of the safest and most user-friendly VPNs on the market. All you have to do is press the ON button ­and you are connected. NordVPN works on up to 6 devices, and now also has Mac and Android apps.

9. Warn them of game scams. Agree to install games together with your kids. Research to see if the game and the provider are reputable. Make sure you download the games only from a reputable source after reading some reviews. Too often fake games are uploaded online, which are made to pop with color on websites, prompting kids to install them for free, when in fact it’s malware that could infect your device.

10. Communication with strangers. The Internet is as social as ever. New chat rooms, forums uniting different interest groups are popping up every day. As kids are eager to discuss their interests with peers, it is important to speak to them about sharing one’s private information. Under no circumstances should they share any pictures, addresses, etc.

11. Email deals are fake! All that sparkles is not gold. If your kids receive an email about a great offer like a free cell phone or concert tickets it’s a trick designed to get one to give up personal information. Again, advise your kids to always show you such emails and never respond to them.

Kids these days are more tech-savvy than most of their parents when they were that age ­but at the same time, they will be exposed to online identity thefts, hackings and snooping if they are not taught basic Internet safety rules from an early age.

via NordVPN

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Digital Trends: You’re now free to be anyone, regardless of gender, in ‘The Sims’

September 4, 2016 By Editorial Staff

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The popular video game The Sims has decided to promote gender fluidity and self-actualization by recently eliminating any and all obstacles to complete gender customization.

In a free update to The Sims 4, publisher Electronic Arts and developer Maxis noted that players would be able to “create Sims with any type of physique, walk style, or voice.” This is a distinct departure from over a decade and a half of Sims’ history, in which characters were restricted by specific clothing, hair styles, and other styling options unique to male or female characters. But now, more than 700 pieces of content that were previously exclusive to either male or female Sims are available to anyone and everyone.

In a statement, Electronic Arts noted that its new move sought to “make sure players can create characters they can identify with or relate to through powerful tools that give them influence over a Sims’ gender, age, ethnicity, body type, and more.”

In an email to The Associated Press, The Sims 4 executive producer Rachel Franklin added that the update, over a year in the making, would allow “female Sims [to] wear sharp men’s suits like Ellen (DeGeneres), and male Sims [to] wear heels like Prince.”

Increasingly, video games have begun to reflect the diversity of its user base. As the New York Times points out, “Fallout 2” and “Fable” have both allowed for same-sex marriage between characters, and games like “Mass Effect” and “Dragon Age” brought LGBT characters onto the scene. And just a few years ago, “The Last of Us” followed the adventures of a gay teenage lead character.

“It has always been important to us to provide our players with powerful ways to express themselves and tell a wide range of stories — whether they’re customizing their Sims’ age, skin color, or gender,” added Franklin.

via Digital Trends

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Words Matter: NBC commentator insists Olympian Simone Biles’ adoptive parents “are NOT her parents.”

August 9, 2016 By Editorial Staff

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NBC gymnastics commentator Al Trautwig is learning how to speak about families after failing to refer to American gymnast Simone Biles’ adoptive parents as her actual parents.

Several viewers immediately called him out on social media for the mistake. Twitter user Emily Mingus, asked Trautwig to use the appropriate terms. In a since-deleted tweet, Trautwig fired back: “They may be mom and dad but they are NOT her parents.”

The claim was met with immediate pushback, most notably from Biles’ own coach, Aimee Boorman, who weighed in. “Actually they are her parents,” she tweeted at Trautwig.

The Associated Press reports NBC ordered Trautwig to delete the offending tweet, and he sought to “set the record straight” and apologized in a statement.

“I regret that I wasn’t more clear in my wording on the air,” Trautwig’s statement read. “I compounded the error on Twitter, which I quickly corrected. To set the record straight, Ron and Nellie are Simone’s parents.”

The 19-year-old gymnast and her sister were both adopted out of foster care by her maternal grandfather, Ron Biles, and his wife, Nellie. Her biological mother struggled with drug and alcohol addiction.

In an interview earlier this year with USA Today, Simone made absolutely clear she considers the two her parents.

“When I was younger, I was adopted by my grandparents, which are now my parents,” she said. “I call them Mom and Dad. Everything’s just been so normal.”

via HuffPost
photo: DailyMail.co.uk

Filed Under: News & Politics

This is your child. This is social media. This is your child on social media.

July 7, 2016 By Editorial Staff

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She slides into the car, and even before she buckles her seat belt, her phone is in her hands. A 13-year-old girl after a day of eighth grade.

Her thumb on Instagram. She closes the app. She opens BuzzFeed. She opens Instagram. She opens the NBA app. She shuts the screen off. She turns it back on. She opens Spotify. Opens Fitbit. She has 7,427 steps. Opens Instagram again. Opens Snapchat. She watches a sparkly rainbow flow from her friend’s mouth. She watches a YouTube star make pouty faces at the camera. She watches a tutorial on nail art. She feels the bump of the driveway and looks up. They’re home. Twelve minutes have passed.

Katherine’s iPhone is the place where all of her friends are always hanging out. So it’s the place where she is, too. She’s on it after it rings to wake her up in the mornings. She’s on it at school, when she can sneak it. She’s on it while her 8-year-old sister, Lila, is building crafts out of beads. She sets it down to play basketball, to skateboard, to watch PG-13 comedies and sometimes to eat dinner, but when she picks it back up, she might have 64 unread messages.

Now she’s on it in her living room, while she explains what it’s like to be a 13-year-old today.

“Over 100 likes is good, for me. And comments. You just comment to make a joke or tag someone.”

The best thing is the little notification box, which means someone liked, tagged or followed her on Instagram. She has 604 followers. There are only 25 photos on her page because she deletes most of what she posts. The ones that don’t get enough likes, don’t have good enough lighting or don’t show the coolest moments in her life must be deleted.

“I decide the pictures that look good,” she says. “Ones with my friends, ones that are a really nice-looking picture.”

Somewhere, maybe at this very moment, neurologists are trying to figure out what all this screen time is doing to the still-forming brains of people Katherine’s age, members of what’s known as Generation Z. Educators are trying to teach them that not all answers are Googleable. Counselors are prying them out of Internet addictions. Parents are trying to catch up by friending their kids on Facebook. (P.S. Facebook is obsolete.) Sociologists, advertisers, stock market analysts — everyone wants to know what happens when the generation born glued to screens has to look up and interact with the world.

Right now, Katherine is still looking down.

“See this girl,” she says, “she gets so many likes on her pictures because she’s posted over nine pictures saying, ‘Like all my pictures for a tbh, comment when done.’ So everyone will like her pictures, and she’ll just give them a simple tbh.”

A tbh is a compliment. It stands for “to be heard” or “to be honest.”

Katherine tosses her long brown hair behind her shoulder and ignores her black Lab, Lucy, who is barking to be let out.

“It kind of, almost, promotes you as a good person. If someone says, ‘tbh you’re nice and pretty,’ that kind of, like, validates you in the comments. Then people can look at it and say, ‘Oh, she’s nice and pretty.’ ”

School is where she thrives: She is beloved by her teachers, will soon star as young Simba in the eighth-grade performance of “The Lion King” musical, and gets straight A’s. Her school doesn’t offer a math course challenging enough for her, so she takes honors algebra online through Johns Hopkins University.

Now she’s on her own page, checking the comments beneath a photo of her friend Aisha, which she posted for Aisha’s birthday.

“Happy birthday posts are a pretty big deal,” she says. “It really shows who cares enough to put you on their page.”

Her floor is a tangle of clothes, and her bed is a tangle of cords. One for her phone, one for an iPod, and one for her school laptop.

Her dad wants to figure out how to get her to use her phone less. One month, she ate up 18 gigabytes of data. Most large plans max out at 10. He intervened and capped her at 4 GB.

“I don’t want to crimp it too much,” he says. “That’s something, from my perspective, I’m going to have to figure out, how to get my arms around that.”

He says that a lot. He’s a ­56-year-old corporate lawyer who doesn’t know how to upload photos to his Facebook page. When he was 13, he lived only two miles away. He didn’t have a cellphone, of course, and home phones were reserved for adults. When he wanted to talk to his friends, he rode his bike to their houses. His parents expected him to play outside all day and be back by dinnertime.

Some of Katherine’s very best friends have never been to her house, or she to theirs. To her dad, it seems as if they rarely hang out, but he knows that to her, it seems as if they’re together all the time. He tries to watch what she sends them — pictures of their family skiing, pictures of their cat Bo — but he’s not sure what her friends, or whomever she follows, is sending back.

He checks the phone bill to see who she’s called and how much she’s been texting, but she barely calls anyone and chats mostly through Snapchat, where her messages disappear. Another dad recommended that use of parental controls would stop Katherine from using her phone at night. He put that in place, but it seemed like as soon as he did, there was some reason he needed to switch it off.

Even if her dad tried snooping around her apps, the true dramas of teenage girl life are not written in the comments.

Like how sometimes, Katherine’s friends will borrow her phone just to un-like all the Instagram photos of girls they don’t like. Katherine can’t go back to those girls’ pages and re-like the photos because that would be stalking, which is forbidden.

Or how at the middle school dance, her friends got the phone numbers of 10 boys, but then they had to delete five of them because they were seventh-graders. And before she could add the boys on Snapchat, she realized she had to change her username because it was her childhood nickname, and that was totally embarrassing.

Then, because she changed her username, her Snapchat score reverted to zero. The app awards about one point for every snap you send and receive. It’s also totally embarrassing and stressful to have a low Snapchat score. So in one day, she sent enough snaps to earn 1,000 points.

Snapchat is where flirting happens. She doesn’t know anyone who has sent a naked picture to a boy, but she knows it happens with older girls, who know they have met the right guy.

Nothing her dad could find on her phone shows that for as good as Katherine is at math, basketball and singing, she wants to get better at her phone. To be one of the girls who know what to post, how to caption it, when to like, what to comment.

One afternoon, Katherine accidentally leaves her phone in her dad’s car. She shouldn’t need it while she does her homework, but she reaches for it, momentarily forgetting it’s not next to her on the U-shaped couch.

Her feet are kicked up onto a coffee table, MacBook is on her stomach. She’s working on her capstone project, a 12-page essay and presentation on a topic of her choice. At the beginning of the year, she chose “Photoshop and the media,” an examination of how women are portrayed in magazines.

She types into Google, “How to change Chrome icon.” She finds what she needs in seconds. The icon becomes pink. She flips back to the essay and copies a line into the PowerPoint presentation she will give in front of her classmates.

Photoshop affects women of all ages ranging as young as six and even to women older than 40.

Katherine doesn’t need magazines or billboards to see computer-perfect women. They’re right on her phone, all the time, in between photos of her normal-looking friends. There’s Aisha, there’s Kendall Jenner’s butt. There’s Olivia, there’s YouTube star Jenna Marbles in lingerie.

The whole world is at her fingertips and has been for years. This, Katherine offers as a theory one day, is why she doesn’t feel as if she’s 13 years old at all. She’s probably, like, 16.

“I don’t feel like a child anymore” she says. “I’m not doing anything childish. At the end of sixth grade” – when all her friends got phones and downloaded Snapchat, Instagram and Twitter — “I just stopped doing everything I normally did. Playing games at recess, playing with toys, all of it, done.”

Katherine switches from her essay to Instagram, which she opens in a new tab. There’s a photo of a girl who will go to Katherine’s high school climbing out of a pool. A photo of clouds above a parking lot. A poorly lit selfie. She flips back to her essay. There’s a section about how unrealistic portrayals of women lead to teenage eating disorders.

If you aren’t thin, you aren’t attractive

Being thin is more important than being healthy

Thou shall not eat without feeling guilty

She found the words on a blog encouraging anorexia. Its pages were filled with photos of rail-thin girls and tips for how to stop yourself from eating. If she were to go looking for them, Katherine could find sites like this for bulimia, cutting, suicide – all the dangerous behaviors that are more prominent for teens who have been through trauma. She could scroll through them on her phone, looking no different than when she’s reading a BuzzFeed article.

She copies and pastes some lines from the blog into her presentation. She has never dieted. But for some reason, she says, when she first found this blog, she just couldn’t seem to get it out of her head.

On the morning of her 14th birthday, Katherine wakes up to an alarm ringing on her phone. It’s 6:30 a.m. She rolls over and shuts it off in the dark.

Propping herself up on her peace-sign-covered pillow, she opens Instagram. Her friends will decide whether to post pictures of Katherine for her birthday. Whether they like her enough to put a picture of her on their page. Those pictures, if they come, will get likes and maybe tbhs.

They should be posted in the morning, any minute now. She scrolls past a friend posing in a bikini on the beach. Then a picture posted by Kendall Jenner. A selfie with coffee. A basketball Vine. A selfie with a girl’s tongue out. She scrolls, she waits. For that little notification box to appear.

Story via Washington Post
Photo via Kate Miller/For The Washington Post

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