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Well its a beatiful new Tuesday morning here in San Diego! I made a powerful decision in the last week or so. I decided that im going to begin to ACT as if im allready a parent. How do you do that you ask?well let me explain. I dont know if anyone has read the book or seen the movie "The Secret", but i have, and what i took away from it is this; if you think that your NEVER going to be able to adopt...then you wont. If however you have no doubt that YOU WILL ...then you WILL! The book is a great one but im a "visual guy" so the movie which you can pay like 3 or 4 bucks to watch at their website was for me much more helpful.Now mind you this is something i did last year,but has stayed with me.This isnt a informercial for the book or movie, im just saying that when i watched it a lightbulb came on. The premise is so easy, so why do we make it so hard on ourselves? The basic premise is "What you put out into the universe is whats true to you" for instance if you say i only meet deadbeat,whiny guys, then thats the only guys youll meet because when you put that statement out into the universe your saying that its your truth,wether you want it to be or not! If however you say out loud, and as many times as you need to until you take it as a truth for yourself that from now on the ONLY guys i attract are thoughtful,caring,independent,non-clingy,non-mama boy,stable,employed,doesnt,smoke,drink,do drugs,loves his family,kind of guy.....ok it takes ME a LOT longer to say it(lol), but then THAT becomes your truth, and guess what it starts to work. So THIS morning i awoke to the fact that i AM a adoptive parent ALLREADY. Guess what i feel pretty excited, and i havent even finished my first cup of coffee!!! Folks we can have any kind of life we want IF we stop listening to the nay sayers, the critics, the family member who say "i think it should be a man AND a woman, stop absorbing the NEGATIVE, and instead take back our power, and recite the positive ANYTHING can and will HAPPEN! Listen i told myself that i would come into something big one day soon, and for a while it seemed that the universe was on a different line, but on jan 26th i won a brand new car,a years worth of gas and $5000.00 at a local casino...on 40 bucks, on a penny machine,SOOOOOO..trust me anything is possible when YOU believe it will happen. SO this morning i awoke KNOWING im ALLREADY a parent, and you know what..it feels pretty fan,when you finally believe it! have a great day everyone!
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Well, positive thinking
Well, positive thinking never hurt anyone! As someone who's parenting dream came true, I wish you good luck! Soon you will be woken up by someone requesting pancakes and cartoons... at 3 in the morning. hehe... but it's worth it!