finding local help

Hey,
I'm a single dad looking for support in the gay life. Not yet out but would welcome support on how and what to expect. I've been through a lot and i'm sure that I can take pretty much anything but when you have kids and live in a small town that everyone knows me. Plus I have some family members that I work with and I do not want to hurt them or be an embarrassment to them. I really need some friends thats been in my shoes.

Thanks,Chuckey