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Forget apology - Fire Her!

Mon, 12 May 2008 14:00:07 -0700

The ACLU is being kind - no one not even the principal of the high school has the right to out anyone. Coming out is a personal and sensitive thing - and only the individual can decide on when the time is right for them to come forward.

What Principal Beasley did was out of line and out of her jurisdiction. Because she took matters into her own hands with out consulting the students their parents, the board, the school attorneys - she has now put these students in possible danger not only from verbal and emotional assault that they have already encountered but also the possibility of physical assault similar to that of Lawrence King.

Reference for further education: www.gayamericanheroes.com

Robb Colleluori
A Bear's Life Magazine

Turkey Baster Method DOES work

Mon, 12 May 2008 12:31:43 -0700

I am also in a lesbian relationship and myself and my wife about 3 weeks ago went about using the turkey baster method and yesterday I found out that I am pregnant. It works just make sure that the person you use as a donor has a clean bill of health with no serious infections.

Surrogate is Available to make your dreams come true

Mon, 12 May 2008 11:33:14 -0700

Hi, I am an experienced surrogate. I am ready to be matched with a couple. I am working with SPCT in Dallas, Texas. All background investigations and medical exams passed and completed. Psych evaluations completed and passed. If you are interested in using me as a surrogate, I'd be pleased to meet with you. You would simply contact SPCT at Phone: 214-742-6222 and ask about experienced surrogate "L.F." in West Texas. Thanks!

Surrogate Available to help make your dreams a reality

Mon, 12 May 2008 11:31:44 -0700

Hi, I found your response and wish you the best. I am an experienced surrogate. I am ready to be matched with a couple. I am working with SPCT in Dallas, Texas. If you are interested in using me as a surrogate, I'd be pleased to meet with you. You would simply contact SPCT at Phone: 214-742-6222 and ask about experienced surrogate "L.F." in West Texas. Thanks!

Surrogate available for IP

Mon, 12 May 2008 09:36:59 -0700

Dear Future Parents:

I would like to introduce myself, Loree .
I am interested in becoming a surrogate once again. I was a surrogate over two years ago. The intended parents were from Italy and wanted to have a baby. I agreed to work with them. They were successful the first try! They were expecting a baby but at 2.5 months, the doctor pulled me off of Progesterone. This is the medication/hormone that keeps the body from rejecting the fetus. They pulled me off too soon and I miscarried. We were all devastated. I agreed to stay with this couple. About 7 months went by and the couple. The I.M. would state that she did not have a good vibe about this transfer and would cease all medication and injections… we’d have to start over several times. We tried again and again but her body would just not respond to the medication properly. Her eggs were very poor quality and were frozen. Only one survived but was a very poor grade. It did not work. Once again, we decided to go through another cycle. Once again, her body did not respond. Once again we stopped and started again and again. Finally, I called her (usually she called, texted and emailed daily… yes, all three). Suddenly it stopped abruptly so I called her. Turned out she was chosen to be the adoptive parents of a newborn. Without notice, without informing the doctors or the agency, she adopted. This left me with over two years loyalty and chock full of medication. I am happy for her and her husband. They so wanted a baby. It was their dream and they made it come through. They will make excellent parents and I am thrilled for them. But, here I am… starting over two years later. Now I am looking for a couple who is similar to me. I would like to work with a couple who has manners, is open and warm and friendly. Someone who will not see me as an employee. Yes, I am being compensated, but not paid. I’d like to work with a couple who is patient and willing to express concerns diplomatically. I offer longevity, honesty and the peace of mind to know that I will do everything possible to hold up my end of this delicate deal.

I love being a surrogate. Now I am VERY familiar with the procedures. We used Dr. Chantillis in Dallas, Texas and Dr. Noble in El Paso (who is excellent!) We use Freedom Pharmacy to order all medication (this saves me from having to be reimbursed, an account is created and medication is only a phone call away). I am familiar with the cycles and how this works. At first, it was all new to all of us. I can answer a lot of the questions and tell you what you may expect and how long things take and why certain things happen.

I am familiar of what to avoid, what foods to avoid and how to inject myself as my fiancé is also very familiar. This really helps! I have all tests completed, and I have to say, each time I have gone in for the sonogram (they will look at my uterus inside and out to see how I am doing) I have responded to the medication very, very well. In fact, the doctors stated that my uterus is ideal for carrying a child.

I know that this is difficult for you. It is a life changing experience and something that you may have mixed feelings about. That is normal. That is okay. This baby will be YOUR baby to love and boy, will you have a story to tell if you should chose to. It is incredible. If we are matched, you may expect a very friendly, happy, cheerful person. I am the mother of one little spirited boy. He’s my world. And, my fiancé is the most patient man I’ve ever met. For instance, in the middle of the night, if I say, “I’m craving chicken strips from Denny’s” he will immediately respond, “Want me to get some?” (Laugh!) I won’t even be pregnant. And no, I never make him. He is soooo great. I love him so much. I’ve asked him if he would like to have a child of our own. He does not. Thankfully. You see, I’ve always wanted one child. Always. My little boy has a lot of friends and a cousin his same age to play with. Someday I hope to be a foster parent someday, not anytime soon. One project at a time for me!

I have a sense of humor that is basic. I laugh at my own jokes. No one else seems to. I’m a bit silly. My little boy makes me laugh so much. He is hilarious. I love kids. I really do. They are fun. Whenever I can get my niece to come over, we are very happy. They are a handful but so much fun together.

I work in an office. I like cushy office work right now. I used to be a coordinator. Now I am used to sitting at a desk all day and I love it. I love office work. I do not speak Spanish at all. I wish that I did.

What am I like? Well, I’m very boring, I think. That whole club scene was out of my system when I had my child. I love the house and the family and the white picket fence. I love animals, too. I really do. Currently I’m searching for a breeder who will breed silver poodles. Toy, miniature or tea cup. They are hard to find! My passion is history. I have a degree (associates) in Business Management. We believe in God. Now, we are not of any denomination. Simply put, we believe in God.

What can you expect? You may expect integrity, honesty and complete communication. This is YOUR baby and I am willing to care of this baby. I feel that it is my responsablity to ensure that this baby has a healthy, happy start. I like to play music, talk to the baby and, if you allow, play your voices (recorded or live) to the womb so that the baby will be comforted when he or she is born and will recognize your voice. It works!
I will make sure that you are informed of everything. There will be no suprises. I know that this is difficult to imagine, someone carrying your child. Please know that I will love and care for this baby while I am carrying it up until your baby is in your arms.

I want to help you to make your dream come true. This is a wonderful journey and something that will be a positive experience. Whomever you should chose, whomever you are matched with, may they be loving, patient and always happy as to ensure a great pregnancy and experience for you, the baby and the surrogate. This is important, I’m sure that you are aware.

I wish you success. This is a wonderful thing that you are going to accomplish. Thank you for your consideration and your time.

Respectfully,

Lori
chandler_knight_74@yahoo.com

SURROGATE FOR HIRE

Mon, 12 May 2008 09:35:28 -0700

Dear Future Parents:

I would like to introduce myself, Loree. I was born in El Paso, Texas in 1972 and have lived in California most of my childhood. I returned to El Paso and have lived her for over fifteen years.

I am interested in becoming a surrogate once again. I was a surrogate over two years ago. The intended parents were from Italy and wanted to have a baby. I agreed to work with them. They were successful the first try! They were expecting a baby but at 2.5 months, the doctor pulled me off of Progesterone. This is the medication/hormone that keeps the body from rejecting the fetus. They pulled me off too soon and I miscarried. We were all devastated. I agreed to stay with this couple. About 7 months went by and the couple. The I.M. would state that she did not have a good vibe about this transfer and would cease all medication and injections… we’d have to start over several times. We tried again and again but her body would just not respond to the medication properly. Her eggs were very poor quality and were frozen. Only one survived but was a very poor grade. It did not work. Once again, we decided to go through another cycle. Once again, her body did not respond. Once again we stopped and started again and again. Finally, I called her (usually she called, texted and emailed daily… yes, all three). Suddenly it stopped abruptly so I called her. Turned out she was chosen to be the adoptive parents of a newborn. Without notice, without informing the doctors or the agency, she adopted. This left me with over two years loyalty and chock full of medication. I am happy for her and her husband. They so wanted a baby. It was their dream and they made it come through. They will make excellent parents and I am thrilled for them. But, here I am… starting over two years later. Now I am looking for a couple who is similar to me. I would like to work with a couple who has manners, is open and warm and friendly. Someone who will not see me as an employee. Yes, I am being compensated, but not paid. I’d like to work with a couple who is patient and willing to express concerns diplomatically. I offer longevity, honesty and the peace of mind to know that I will do everything possible to hold up my end of this delicate deal.

I wish you success. This is a wonderful thing that you are going to accomplish. Thank you for your consideration and your time.

Respectfully,

Lori
chandler_knight_74@yahoo.com

thanks so much for this great roundup!

Fri, 09 May 2008 10:04:07 -0700

I'd also love to share with you all a fun post from Harlyn Aizley, about the pitfalls and joys of Mother's Day when there are two moms to think about:

http://www.beaconbroadside.com/broadside/2008/05/whos-your-mama.html

WOW

Gaydad — Thu, 08 May 2008 11:51:03 -0700

Where can we find out what happens when you meet. Will it be posted here???

Have you met him already?

here's my story:
http://mytwodaddies.blogspot.com

Wonderful

sofasonke — Tue, 06 May 2008 06:35:42 -0700

Its long overdue..Good for you Jodie..

Well Duh...

Tue, 06 May 2008 06:07:40 -0700

Sorry, but this is stupidity on the part of ALL GAY PEOPLE WHO STILL LIVE IN FLORIDA!! Much less, this country. Why in the world would you adopt (and pay taxes. and contribute to society) in a state that gives NO RIGHTS to gay people. Then turn around and bitch when they pass a law like this, like it was a shock. I get it, the weather is nice. But if you trade some comfort for some peace of mind, then you deserve what you get. My bf and I are in Michigan, planning to move to London, Ontario. And I'll be outside shoveling snow off my car, cursing the very existence of winter, BUT I'll be legally married with legally adopted kids.

Gay Adoption

Sun, 04 May 2008 09:29:45 -0700

My partner and I have been together 10 years, she has not had the chance to experence the wonderful feeling of motherhood, but I have I have raised a daughter and she is 33 a college graduate, married and very happy.
I would love to have the chance to give a child a chance for a loving and careing home. WE can make a difference in a childs life and a chance to make it in this world as a well rounded adult.

CONGRATS!!!

Sat, 26 Apr 2008 20:16:32 -0700

What a wonderful journey you are on! OK, if having one child makes both parents sleep deprived, does quads mean anyone within a 4 mile radius also loose sleep!?

Our son just turned 10 months old and I'm enjoying every bit of it! We hope to expand our family in 2009. We are so very happy and excited. We live in OC and are looking for lesbian parenting groups. Any recommendations?

Wishing your family a lifetime of love!

lesbian couple

Sat, 26 Apr 2008 17:32:44 -0700

Hi we are a lesbian couple in dublin looking for advice or help as to were we can get sperm for myself. xxxx

I think this is very sad.

Simple Surrogacy — Sat, 26 Apr 2008 12:14:10 -0700

I think this is very sad. Intended Parents should not have to travel to another state to become parents. It should be a right to do it in your home state/town, not a privilidge.

this is so sad

Fri, 25 Apr 2008 11:42:56 -0700

i cant believe a child would hate a gay so much that they would kill them. just think of the life that kid had to live to be able to hate someone or something that bad. i happen to be bi and i still do go to high school and i get made fun of every day me and my girlfriend both do but never would any of these people kill us becuase we r who we r and no one can change that. i hope that boy get whats comeing to him.