I am in the same situation you are in. I am pretty sure the real father is willing to give up the rights to my son. I just got married and am needing to do the same thing. My son sees my husband as his father and only knows him. I am just not sure on how to go about it and what is the cheapest way I go about it. We don't have a lot of money, but we want my son to have the benefits of my husband being his real father on paper. If anyone has any good advice, my e mail is orangenicky0314@yahoo.com
Thanks.
Hang in there......