Hi, my partner and I joined DVC in 1999 and couldn't have been more comfortable with the whole experience. We will be returning in June for Gay Days, mostly because it is our anniversary (we honeymooned there of course) and my Partner's birthday. When we went at this time of year in 2004, we pretty much avoided all the "gay activities" except the Magic Kingdom on saturday (we are kidless by the way). Even then we arrived early and left very early as it was extremely crowded! But being there amongst a sea of red shirts is an event I will never forget. I highly recommend taking this in if possible!