My partner and I have been together 6 1/2 years. We currently live in Manhattan. He and I have just begun to talk about starting a family - a daunting conversation to be sure. We are looking at moving outside the city, so our future children can have some space and good public schools. He works two days a week in Connecticut, so we're thinking of looking in either Westchester or Southern Connecticut - something close to a train so we can zip into NYC when we want. We would love to find a community where we aren't the only gay parents around.

Does anybody live in the burbs around here or have friends that do, that might be able to steer us toward some welcoming communitites?

Thanks,

-Dan