lkkmed's blog

I am seeking opinions and ideas from all of you. I have two adopted children. My ex(lesbian) and I adopted them then 'divorced'/split up 6 years ago. The children are now 9 and 12. We share custody from week to week; so i see them constantly. My ex is with a new partner, I am not. Took me longer to let go of the dream. I am(finally) in love with a woman in a town four hours away from us. She has 3 young kids (twin 3 & 5yo)and won't move/leave them from her ex. when is it ok to do something for me as a mom?