Hi, I thought this blog may be a great way of sharing our experiences through-out the whole gay dad process. We are a couple in New Zealand – it appears the only gay guys in the country to want a family??? go figure, there must be a lot of guys out there in the same or similar circumstances. SAY HI !!
Any way, yesterday we spoke to the lady who is going to have our baby and she is so excited to be able to give us a gift of life. We met through a friend of a friend, almost in error.
She is having her IUD removed on Monday and it looks like we start our part a few days later. We were going to mix our sperm but have been told its not a good idea. Evidently the sperm fight each other. (They seemed to be happy together in the past!!)
We have decided we will provide sperm on alternative days for each of us and let nature decide!
We both, and our babies mum have twins in the family so it could be interesting.
We dont mind if we have a girl or a boy, either or both would be great.
I’ll post a new blog in the next week or. We hope this will provide interesting reading over the next 9 or so months.