Transfer unsuccessful

Well, we got the call this afternoon and we were very disappointed to learn that our surrogate is not pregnant. The doctor gave us a very low probability due to the poor quality/grade of the embryos so we tried to prepare ourselves, but we couldn’t help but be hopeful. Well we’re taking a breather right now to gather our thoughts, but we expect to go back to square one and try again. We’ve been warned that this is not uncommon, but it doesn’t make it much easier knowing that. Thankfully, our surrogate is very much engaged in the process with us and has reiterated her support. We are so pleased to have met her!

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  • June 13, 2008 at 6:16 am

    Guys we are so sorry to hear about this. We surely know how tough and grueling this whole process is. You guys will bounce back in no time and will have your little baby girl/boy soon! It’s also wonderful that you guys have a great surro for support. This website is confusing so if you guys ever want to chat please email us at, we would love to hear from you guys and swap stories….

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